VL Club President
Mood:  a-ok
As strange as it sounds, I am a 20 year old member of the VL (virgin lips) club. I say that it sounds strange not due to the idea of a thought that I of all people should have lost their lip virginity many years ago, I say that mearly out of speculation of how many of us there are in the world. I have had so many eyebrows raised in my direction ... not to mention the many and severely creepy offers to discontinue my membership of the above club.
It's not that I don't want to kiss someone, and it isn't that I haven't had offers or opportunities to, I actually kind of find it intimidating. I play it off as if I just want to wait, which is indeed fact, I think it would be kind of neat to say that my first kiss was across the alter from my hottie husband. However at the same time I wouldn't mind, I definitely don't want to be one of those loose lipped ladies who will kiss anyone who heads her way, I personally hold a higher respect for kissing and any physical interaction for that matter. I imagine that it could be like the first time you hold a guys hand, you're super nervous but as time wears on you gain more confidence.
It seems to be my luck that the guys I am interested in find out that I am not going to give lip right away and split. So what if you don't get a make out buddy in the first few days or week into your relationship? Aren't I worth waiting a little bit? Not saying that I am some unbelievably irresistible girl, but honestly? Am I completely out of line here? To you boys out there, would you turn away from a relationship just because she wouldn't kiss you right away?
There is a possibility that I experienced a few burns because of this, "you already said you aren't going to kiss anyone for a long time", well no, not right away but hey a little longer than could be expected. I hope my thoughts aren't completely warped on this and I hope the individual who made the above comment doesn't hate me because of this posting, I love him a lot and actually considered giving up my right as assumed VL President because of him as strange as that sounds